When a daughter's mother is dying, what is the best way to help her contribute to her mother's comfort?

The most effective approach to assist the daughter in contributing to her mother's comfort during this critical time is to suggest giving a gentle foot massage and offer to demonstrate. This option not only provides a physical source of comfort through touch, which can be soothing and reassuring, but it also fosters a sense of connection and involvement for the daughter. Physical touch, such as massage, has been shown to reduce discomfort and anxiety in patients at the end of life. It allows the daughter to actively engage in caregiving, creating a meaningful way to show love and support in her mother’s final moments.

This hands-on activity promotes emotional bonding, as it helps the daughter express her feelings and presence in a tactile way, enhancing both the daughter's and the mother's experience during this sensitive time. Furthermore, the offer to demonstrate serves as a supportive gesture that can empower the daughter, especially if she feels unsure about how to provide comfort.

In contrast, sitting quietly and doing nothing does not facilitate any form of comfort or connection. While it may seem respectful, inactivity does not help the daughter engage with her mother’s needs. Suggesting that the daughter offer her mother a favorite food could be appropriate under different circumstances, but it may not be practical or effective if the mother is too ill or has